SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS: HISTORICAL CONTEXT FROM THE U.K.

Both sexuality and relationships are part of the same continuum. However, many training organizations separate these out and make them distinct and separate. Through the lens of several decades of facilitation and teaching and looking at the themes which occur in the therapy room I will suggest that an integrative approach serves the client(s) rather than excluding one aspect or the other. This paper is based on my experience of psychotherapy with both relationships and sexuality presentations. There may be biases in practitioners which lend them to lean towards one aspect of the relationship over the other. Therapist competence is key in working with the client(s), and we will look at how focusing on one aspect solely may marginalize the client's experience and render them silent. Psychosexual and relationship therapy as a modality is an inclusive offering of therapy and
supports a more holistic approach when working with clients.